How does it feel to have a crush on somebody?

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How does it feel to have a crush on somebody?

Photo by Pragyan Bezbaruah: https://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-covering-her-face-2029235/

This is a surreal feeling. How to describe it?

ummmm……

I am a girl so I will address my crush as him.

The feeling of wanting to look at his face but finding it so hard to even look at him directly. Going to a place where you know you will get a chance to look at him.

wanting to know what is his favorite things.

for example;

What is his favorite color?

What does he love to eat?

what is his favorite actor?

what is his favorite dish?

who is his best friend?

Does he have a girlfriend?

Does he know I like him?

And many more question pop into my head.

when you have a crush you want to look for similarities between you two and if you don’t find many more similarities then you started to make similarities in silly things. Like, oh!! He and I use the same brand of pen. He also doesn’t know the answer to these questions, me too. He also likes to sing a particular song. yes, We are soulmates. I knew we are made for each other, YES.

If he is talking to another girl you will feel jealous also. Knowing him from distance is a part of having a crush on someone.

If you have the courage then you will talk to him. you two will start to get to know each other and if everything goes well and you two are having a great bonding together then it might turn from a one-sided crush to both sided love story.

OR,

Maybe while getting to know each other you find he is not like what I think he is. Maybe he will start to look different from near and you two will end things and move on.

OR,

he doesn’t want you or he already has someone or he is just not interested in you.

OR,

you will never tell him you have a crush on him and time will make your crush fade away.

whatever the situation may occur but you enjoy the period while having a crush on somebody. This will become one of your life stories that will make your heart smile when you remember this time.

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