how friendship will influence your relation

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MY FRIENDS ARE HOLDING ME TO LOVE ANYONE

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Here I am talking about romantic love. The dreamy love that I always want to have.

My friends have found someone that they can say they are in love with. Well, they have found very soon I guess or I am late to find someone I don’t know.

In the beginning, they are such a lovey-dovey couple but now their relationship has such a u-turn. They always fought for such stupid reasons.

I sometimes get jealous because according to me they are lucky to find someone they can love for life. But now I realize love is just not everything in relation.

I have seen my friend’s breakdown and how frustrated they are in their relationship but are continuing it and making effort to long lasted it.

I have never been in a relationship but seeing my friend’s frustration makes me worried about my capacity to love anyone in this life.

I always thought loving someone should never be difficult, It should be the easygoing road. for me, love is like giving your all to someone who can keep it safe for you. love should be happy and beautiful. Fighting in love should be for the care of your partner not for humiliating your partner.

sometime the more we start to love others the more we try to control them by any means. That just will make love suffocate and end miserably

Around me, there is so much of suffocated love which is serving at the edge of breaking down.

in my friend’s relationship, there is no cheating scenario but I can feel their frustration or not being satisfied with what they have . which makes me wonder if this is the road of love then can I survive on this journey or it will be impossible for me to only have a ticket of this journey.

Loving another human being is no joke. It is a great responsibility that required love first and then respect, a sense of presence, understanding, acceptance, attachment, and many more.

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